My dad at dinner one night: “So people who are natural and healthy and stuff are called crunchy, right?”
Me: “Yep!”
Dad: “So, if someone is just transitioning to natural living, then they are chewy!”
Me: “Ha ha, I guess so!”
Dad: “Well, I think our family is chewy but you, Lauren, are completely burned.”
Yeah, that would probably be accurate. I detox my hair with clay, I wash my face with honey, I trim my hair according to moon cycles… and now I have vehemently renounced tampons and pads. Instead, I use a reusable menstrual cup.
Yes, a menstrual cup. It sounds medieval and frightening, but this thing changed my periods forever. So, without further ado, here is my menstrual cup review and experience with it!
Why switch to a menstrual cup?
I’ve now been using a menstrual cup for about a year and I am never going back! My adoration for my menstrual cup has two faces. First, convenience, which I discuss below. Second, wellbeing. Conventional pads and tampons pose a toxic hazard to both our health and the health of our environment.
First, chemical residue from tampons can be absorbed through the thin tissues of the vaginal walls. Even chemicals from pads can be absorbed through the skin contact. One big concern is dioxin. The FDA recently banned the use of dioxin, a carcinogen, in the use of bleaching sanitary products. Now, chlorine dioxide gas is frequently used for bleaching, but this can still produce dioxin residue in the finished item. A 2005 study in the Journal of Women’s Health found that seven brands of tampons had measurable levels of dioxin. Besides being a carcinogen, dioxin has been shown to induce endometriosis in an animal study with monkeys. The widespread use of toxic tampons may be a significant factor in the skyrocketing rates of endometriosis in young women today.
Pesticides and genetically modified (GM) cotton also threaten our health and environment. As the most highly sprayed crop, cotton accounts for more than 10% of total pesticide use. Pesticide residue on feminine products can be absorbed through the skin. Further, GM cotton makes up about half of the cotton worldwide (source).
Here’s why I’m in love with my cup:
1. Clean sheets
Waking up to blood-stained sheets is the exact opposite of waking up on Christmas morning. I have ruined far more sheets than I would like to admit, but I have not blemished a single item of bed linen since switching to the cup! Unlike pads, I can go the whole night without leaks or feeling like I’m sleeping in a wet diaper.
There’s one caveat: on my heaviest day, I need to empty my menstrual cup right before bed and then it will last me about 9 hours. (On lighter days, it will be fine for 10-12 hours). If you have very heavy days, I recommend you sleep with a backup pad until you know how long your cup can get you through.
2. No surprises
Period surprises are the worst surprises. Especially when you are in ballet class, in WHITE tights, extending your leg a la second when you see the surprise all over your tights in the wall-to-wall mirror. Yeah, that *might* have happened to me.
Perhaps the #1 reason I love my menstrual cup is that I can put it in a day or two before the scheduled arrival. If it is later than expected, I just keep it in to catch the late arrival. This is totally safe to do! You can leave the cup in for a whole day during the “just in case” time but I wash it out at night.
3. Affordability
Upfront, a cup appears pricey at around $30. But a cup lasts for at least a year, and many women say they upgrade to a new one every two years. If you buy 8 boxes of tampons per year, you are at $56… so the cup is already saving you money.
4. Minimal Changes
A cup holds much more than either a pad or a tampon. Like me, many women need to empty it once in the morning and once in the evening. If it is your first time with a cup, I recommend checking it more often because it does vary from person to person.
5. No chemicals
Unlike pads and tampons, cups present no risk of absorbing toxins. I’ve heard some women say that they did not feel safe putting plastic in their body. I get it: silicone isn’t exactly a product of the earth. But I feel safe since silicone does not leach and no safety issues have been reported, even with silicone bakeware when it is subjected to very high temperatures. But for those who would prefer an alternative to silicone, there is a brand made from natural gum rubber (latex).
Also, cups do not carry the risk of Toxic Shock Syndrome (TSS) associated with tampon use. You can safely leave your cup in for 24 hours, but it is recommended to empty and wash it every 12 hours at least.
6. It works for all activities
My cup has taken me through ballet classes, yoga, and swimming. It works for all activities and it doesn’t slip or leak. And, just like a tampon, it works under a bathing suit or leotard.
7. Saves room in the landfills
Purchasing organic tampons and pads sidesteps the problems of chemicals, pesticides and GM cotton. But still leaves the question of waste… Each year, more than 20 billion disposable feminine hygiene products are dumped in landfills or flushed down drains! (Source)
Menstrual Cup Crash Course
- Get yourself a menstrual cup. I originally used a Diva Cup, but now I recommend the Lena Cup.
- Try the ways to fold and insert it. (I prefer the folding in half version). Try the different ways and you will know what you like best. You may wish to trim or completely cut off the stem of the cup if it feels like it pinches.
- The stem of the cup helps you remove it. You can cut off the stem of the menstrual cup to make it shorter. Some women feel like the stem “pinches” so they cut it off. You will still be able to easily remove the cup by pinching the base of the cup and taking it out.
- When the cup is in, rotate it fully to create a suction and to prevent leaks. This is very important – do not skip this step! Rotating it ensures the cup is fully open. You will usually feel it open after turning it. This creates the suction against the skin to prevent anything from leaking out around the sides of the menstrual cup.
- To empty the cup, remove it over the toilet and empty in the toilet. Wash the cup with soap and hot water and re-insert. It is not necessary to boil it after each cycle, although some women prefer to do this (it will wear down the cup faster). A really thorough washing with soap and water each time you use it is all you need.
- It is recommended to replace your cup once a year.
This is a great menstrual cup review and overview video by the people at Mooncup!
Where to find a menstrual cup
Many health food stores now carry the DivaCup. Alternatively, I love the Lena Cup brand which is available here in size small (for light days) and here in size large (for heavy days).
I changed my life by changing my period
My periods used to be horrible, horrendous, unbearable days of cramps, bloating, acne, headaches and cravings. But because I already knew the healing power of food for addressing my autoimmune disease, I decided that food, lifestyle and supplements could change my periods. So I threw myself into research and accomplished the task of revolutionizing my periods.
Never in my life did I think I would write a whole book about periods and how to calm the hormonal chaos during that time of the month. But I did. This period product post wouldn’t be complete without pointing you to my book for information on how to make dietary, lifestyle, and supplemental changes for a happier period. Take a look at it if you want to end your menstrual misery naturally!
Do you use a menstrual cup or other natural feminine hygiene options?
Ok this is maybe a stupid question from someone who’s never used a cup before but how does wearing the cup and urinating work? Can I leave the cup in do I have to take it out. That’s what came first to my mind. Thanks in advance for your information ladies!!!!
Yes, you leave it in just like you leave a tampon in (except there is no string, so it is more convenient when peeing). The cup is not visible once it is inserted.
That’s interesting. I don’t know how other women pee and successfully leave their tampon in. Mine is soaked. I definitely need to try this out. Thanks!!!
Yea mine too ????
A big note about using cups, if you have an IUD, you cannot use a re-usable cup, the suction will dislodge the IUD.
I had a diva cup pre-IUD and loved it, but for me having a non-hormonal method of birth control (I have a copper Paraguard IUD) that wasn’t condoms was more important to me.
I had the same IUD and I can’t imagine putting anything else up there during that time of the month. I was so crampy and bled so heavily I had to use pads!
Thank you for this post because I recently got my first cup and an currently using and loving it. Especially during the heavy days (which are quite bloody in my case) I just enjoyed my first relaxed night. I just have one question if I may. Is it normal after inserting the cup that it may take half an hour to fully unfold? It’s properly inserted and nothing is leaking but it takes ages it to unfold. I’ve bought a popular brand with tons of great review so I doubt it’s the product. And the insertion technique is correct. Thanks!!! Btw. Love your blog!! Greetings from Austria.????
PS sorry for the bad grammar and spelling mistakes my cell is making me gaga.
Hello Katharina,
It should unfold as soon as it is inserted. Try twisting your cup and you should feel it open fully. Another thing you could try is a different fold of your cup, I have noticed that the C fold opens as soon as I insert it compared to other folds. You can just look up different cup folds on YouTube for ideas. And last but not least I often pull on the stem of the cup so it seals properly and it also tells me if it is fully open or not.
Hope this helps 🙂
I do a little dance after putting it in so that everything pops into place! Haha. But if it’s not working for you, maybe you need a firmer (harder) cup? Maybe your muscles are very strong, and the cup is being pushed in. Good luck!
I’m all about menstrual cups! I personally use the Lena Cup, after trying a few of the other ones including a Diva Cup. I also use reusable cloth pads for a bit of protection when my flow is especially heavy. I love the fact that none of my feminine hygiene products are going into the landfill.
Really awesome article. Thanks for sharing that type of good content.
Thanks Lauren for introducing me to menstrual cups. I wish I knew this amazing product years ago. I tried period cup (Lena Cup) for the first time and I can say that I’m simply loving it.
Why are these better than natural pads? I use Seventh Generation overnight pads with wings and I don’t use tampons. Do you consider menstrual cups safer and more effective than these pads? Isn’t it worse to put a synthetic substance or even a non-food-grade substance inside one’s body?